1.       Misty, definitely go by clothes and not the scale.  For one thing, muscle weighs more than fat.  You could lose 5 lbs of fat, gain 10 lbs of muscle, and wear a smaller size of clothing.  Check body measurements and use that as a guide.  Second, red meat is not necessarily a BAD thing to be craving while you are doing weightlifting!  You could try eating other protein sources, or indulge in lower-fat red meat cuts in small amounts.  From my own experience, denying a craving makes you eat much more than you would if you let yourself have a little bit.  Can I borrow Ralph?  I could use an ex-Marine to kick my butt!